Uh oh…
This doesn’t sound good, now does it?
When one person in a relationship double-checks what the other person did to make sure there are no errors, it usually doesn’t go over very well…
Am I right, or am I right?
Of course, I’m right!
So was this woman out of line?
Let’s see what’s going on here…
AITA for checking my daughters’ bags after my husband packed them?
“My (36F) husband (39M) and I are going on a brief vacation with our daughters (twins, 5 yo).
I was busy at work getting things done before I had to go away, and when I came home I saw that my husband had already packed our girls’ bags, which is something that I usually do whenever we leave town.
She had to take a look…
So I opened the bags to see what he put in there and to see if he hadn’t forgotten anything.
He asked me what I was doing, and I told him I was just double checking.
To my surprise he got mad.
He said I made him feel like I don’t even trust him to pack two bags, and that I sometimes complain that he could help more with the girls and around the house but I always take matters into my own hands when he tries to be proactive.
It turns out…
I told him he’s making a big deal out of this, I was simply double checking – and thank god I did because he didn’t pack enough underwear and packed a sweater that doesn’t fit our daughter anymore.
He is now giving me the silent treatment.
Could I have been the ******* here?”
Check out what people had to say about this.
This reader empathizes with her husband.
Another individual made a good point…and said she’s an *******.
This person said they’d never get upset over this.
Another person asked a good question.
This Reddit user shared their thoughts.
Uh oh…
Is there trouble in paradise?